What motivates you?
Why do you go to work every day? Why do you go to school? Why do you go to the gym? Why do you go out at night?
For most guys the answer to all of these questions boils down to money, sex, or a combination of the two.
If we’re being honest, we all work for money and the freedom and security that it brings us. We all go to the gym and the bar in order to get laid.
And while there’s nothing inherently wrong with wanting more money and more sex, there is something wrong with getting hyper-focused on these outcomes. And this is a trap that all too many of us fall into, at one time or another in our lives.
It’s easy to catch ourselves thinking, “I’ll be so happy if I get that raise,” or “I’ll be so happy if I can have sex with that girl tonight.” THIS line of thinking is a problem. An extra $10,000 per year or one night of amazing sex won’t make any noticeable change to your happiness levels. If you’re not already happy, then good luck finding happiness in money and sex.